‘The Elders shoot their wounded’.
And when they come back to life they shoot them again!
This incident took place about 6 months ago in our congregation. A member had been df’d for something similar as Meadow36. This person’s issues were truly more medical related than social related as she also had a slight mental disorder. Bottom line, the Elders got tired after a couple attempts to ‘help’ her and so decided d’fing would wake her up. She had been df’d for about 11/2 years. She had made repeated attempts to get reinstated that failed. She finally decided that suicide was the answer & attempted to take her own life but failed, thanks to her children’s intervention who are not JWs.
The day finally came when her reinstatement was announced. The congregation was so pleasantly surprised and overjoyed that the majority broke out in applause. The killjoy a’hole Elder making the reinstatement announcement reminded the congregation of the ‘WT rule’ that no clapping or applause was allowed when reinstatement announcements are made. This Elder did not have to say that! But such is the life of humiliation that df’d ones have to cope with even when they are welcomed back.
Good luck to you Meadow36.